i get that its disgusting that guys are just penises with a body attached basically. but at the same time. if some nasty guy came up to you and asked you out... would you say yes? he could have the coolest personality, but youre not even attracted enough to want to try in the first place. i know wed all like to sau that looks dont matter, but they do. thats just how evolution works. its there for a reason.

im not shallow by any means. but when a guy asks me out and male friend of mine asks me why i said no i will still say things like "ewwwww". its okay to do things like that. thats what makes us human. its not okay when it turns into things like: leaving your wife for a younger woman. dumping someone because they gain weight but their personality hasnt changed. etc... those things are shallow, imo.