There are a couple of good forums on Babycenter, DWIL (which stands for Dealing With In-Laws) and All in the Family, that provide support and advice for these kinds of issues. I recommend lurking and reading board rules (stickied at the top of the forum) before posting. DWIL posters can be very harsh and impatient when it comes to you making changes that they think you should make. AITF is a friendlier place with more room to vent.