PS Having fun dancing to Indian modern music is indeed awesome. You can have fun dancing and still make good decisions about your personal life. You can choose not to drink for example. It's possible to lead a good life, at the same time as making great friends and having fun....

You can be an oak tree and party without losing your awareness - just find friends who will respect your life choices, and avoid the drink/ drugs scene.

I think that we all struggle with being upset by negative influences in the culture arounds us - I still do and I'm nearly too old for wild dancing!