Yeah, I feel like I can't say anything anymore and just try to avoid her as much as possible. My mother copies me. I've run into her on vacation because I accidentally mentioned I was going somewhere.... so I no longer tell her any of my plans (it's not just vacations she copies). She still tries to get the information out of me or other family members and will book the same time off. It's maddening. I don't even want to tell her where I've been because I don't want to see her there the next year.