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Originally Posted by ennie
Maybe tell him to let you know that it's a "maybe" or "tentative" and not definite, so you don't get your hope set high. He seems like he wants to spend time with you despite having this new demanding job. But he needs to really make it clear which of his commitments are definite and which are maybe's/ tentative's.
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I would say it’s tentative from our convo. Threw weeks ago, he made definite plans but then he wasn’t up to it. I spoke to him on the phone in detail, that when he makes definite plans and cancels last minute, it makes me feel like I can’t trust him. He understood. So, last week was a maybe..tomorrow is definite, so if he does cancel I have to handle it appropriately without over reacting..which might be me not committing to an extra day with him for a while, until he keeps his word.