Previously when he was direct you didn't like it though, right? So it's somewhat understandable that now he's being indirect. If you see what I mean. Your focus seems to be on him and his actions...and endeavoring to change his actions. I suggest reversing that and focusing on yourself and your actions. I think that could serve you better and bring more peace to your life. We cannot change others; we change how we respond to them. I think you may be trying to change him. Though I am sorry in advance if I am misunderstanding.