I'm so sorry, Gymgirl71 I agree with what all the others have already wisely said better than I ever could. You've been given some great advice on this thread. I'd suggest to follow it if you can. Just try to be honest to him about this. Just tell him that you prefer him to be honest with you when he can't go to an appointment with you. I agree that perhaps you getting angry previously may have affected his behavior. That's not your fault, we can't always control our reactions. But at least you know better now. Try to work on that. Tell him that you're aware of that and you'll try not to get angry when he can't make it. I believe that's the best thing you can do in this situation. I hope you'll be able to talk things through with him. You deserve to be happy with him! I hope he'll make an effort as well. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you and your boyfriend