I’m pretty sure it’s over but thanks for the encouraging words. Maybe if her parents weren’t involved I’d have a chance at redemption. We’ve been through something similar once before and her and her parents did the same thing then. Long story short about 2 months into our marriage she admitted to me that she had hooked up with an ex a month or so before we bagan dating. We were talking at the time it happened which she vehimintely denies to this day. Anyways I became very upset and felt lied to and cheated on which I know is stupid because we weren’t actually together but it hurt me bad especially since she waited until after we were married to tell me. Out of revenge I talked to an ex on Facebook nothing sexual just hey how are you etc etc. she found out and her and her family confronted me about it. So I don’t think I’ll be forgiven this time. I’m a bad person.