I agree I really wish she wouldn’t always involve her family. Especially since I have no family so it’s unfair probably a bad word choice there but I couldn’t think of how to word it. She has an entire supportive family that always backs her and I have a 76 year old grandma who I love to death but she is out of touch with reality. Not that I’d expect my grandma to back me for my cheating I just don’t like feeling ganged up on by her family.