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Old Mar 09, 2019, 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967 View Post
Having a pretty good day. Leisurely cleaning house while watching a Monk marathon. Going out to Costco for groceries and Belk for some yellow box flip flops. I love that brand! They last forever and I get lots of compliments. Here in Tennessee with me being hot natured, I wear them practically year round even though I sometimes get strange looks. I have a friend who works there and gets them at a 20% discount.


When I went to visit my daughter it wasn’t a happy, feel good kind of visit. I went up there to line up resources for her and to see that she gets help (she did everything I asked). We’ve always been so close and she is usually a thoughtful, caring person but she has deteriorated with the depression. I felt unwelcome, unappreciated and uncared for. It’s like I lost my daughter and best friend.


Since then I have researched therapists who specialize in mood disorders, anxiety disorders and the grief process. I’m going to work through my feelings so I can be there for her while not getting dragged down by her behavior. I’m also going to start building up other areas of my life.


Thanks for letting me get that out. I’ve been hurting since that trip.


Warm wishes to all for a peaceful weekend and hugs to all who need them.



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Yellow box YES ! My go too also.

I’m sorry your visit with your daughter wasn’t so great , she needs help and you have done what you can, for now.

Yes work on your feelings in Therapy. I have had some ups and downs with my Bipolar daughter , it hurts , really hurts, when I only see her 2-3 times a year because of 750 mile drive.

A few times she’s been so distracted in her head she has blown off time we could have together. My husband came back to the hotel numerous times to find me bawling my eyes out.

Hopefully with the right treatment she will be back to herself.

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