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Originally Posted by Omers
Just a guess but...
It is a sign of growth. The dad needs are becoming fulfilled and now you are starting to transition to transference about adult needs... unfortunately, at this moment in time the needs are overlapping making things even more awkward than just normal transference?
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Thank you, this makes sense. I never thought of that before...that the parental needs are being met and maybe that is why I'm moving on to more "adult" needs now. It took me about eight months to tell him I see him as a father figure...I don't think I'll be bringing up the erotic stuff anytime soon.