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Old Mar 10, 2019, 02:33 PM
Merope Merope is offline
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Originally Posted by Elio View Post
Don't know how it happens, I know with my maternal transference, it will trickle into erotic/romantic from time to time. Whenever hurt or sad, I return to maternal.

I sometimes wonder about this in terms of childhood development in relationship to parental relationships.
Thanks for this! I noticed it too...that when I'm feeling particularly vulnerable, the child part comes out and the paternal transference peaks, whereas when I'm feeling a bit more in control, it turns into erotic.

It might be time to see what Freud has to say....