Seriously, what is the point of an apology? Isnt it just forcing the other person to admit that you were right and they were wrong? It doesnt sound like you want to kiss and make up, or shake hands, or that you are BOTH sorry there was a misunderstanding. It sounds like you are holding the relationshi hostage unless and until the other person apologizes.

I dont mean so much THIS SITUATION in particular, but an apology situation like this in general. I dont see the two sides smoking a peace pipe together, KWIM? One is making the other cry uncle. Its not friendly. Its not win-win. Is that even possible?