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I am 44 now and I got married when I was 20. Around age 23 or 24 I went through a "phase" of majorly overgrooming my lady parts and for me it was definitely related to that "porn star" look or being sexy. The funny thing is I have the sweetest husband who never made me feel bad about what's natural or insinuated that things should be shaved. I firmly believe it was the messages I was receiving. This was in the late 90's/2000 and big boobs, thongs sticking out of your low rise jeans and a certain way of grooming was considered desirable. I always wanted breast implants because I am a b and thought I would be sexy with bigger ones. I had these ideas through all three kids, all the way up until about 2/4 years ago. I had an ingrown hair in that area and had to go see my primary ( you can guess what had to be done) and she told me also about the infection protection, how these little things turned into abcesses and how a small nick could end up being staph if any "dirt" got into it. I thought about it that night and realized that I hated shaving anyway. It was a chore and itched growing back in! I used to weigh 300lbs and had roux-n-y gastric bypass and have kept all the weight off for 10 years. But you do not get to pick where the weight comes off at so I still thought I wanted breast implants for proportional reasons. Since I have stopped the severe landscaping I have come to realize that I do not want silicone that could harden or saline that could burst under the muscle on my chest. My husband is well occupied with what I have going on and even though a women with big boobs might catch him off guard for a hot minute- he seems to be just fine with it. The good thing is tiny boobies and bralettes are a thing now so finally I am in style. Sorry to hijack and branch out your thread but it all goes hand in hand for me.
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