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Originally Posted by unaluna
Seriously, what is the point of an apology? Isnt it just forcing the other person to admit that you were right and they were wrong? It doesnt sound like you want to kiss and make up, or shake hands, or that you are BOTH sorry there was a misunderstanding. It sounds like you are holding the relationshi hostage unless and until the other person apologizes.
I dont mean so much THIS SITUATION in particular, but an apology situation like this in general. I dont see the two sides smoking a peace pipe together, KWIM? One is making the other cry uncle. Its not friendly. Its not win-win. Is that even possible?
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The point of an apology is to show one loves the other and is sorry for hurting them. It opens the door for a relationship to heal.
Of course, I know coercing an apology out of my sister is pointless. If it has to be coerced, it means she DOES NOT feel remorse for her actions at all.
And I am so hurt by her actions and her attitude that our relationship is over.