Loki, I thik you would get better advice more on target if you put a little paragraph on your computer fully describing the situation that you can cut and paste into a thread here, or else put it into your signature. To give proper ideas, we need :Your familiy’s ages and that you are the caregiver yet working, the diagnoses of each,what measures and help you are receiving,and what you are currently doing for the problem in the thread.
HUGs, your buddy in Phoenix
I think most of us should do this when we are asking for help because the situation would alter our responses and make them faster and more on target.