First off, nothing you've posted now and in the times before appear to me to be shallow at all. just so you know...
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
She said she was no upset to hear about the end of my marriage, and that my health problems were not serious, I am fine. She just denies anything that does not suit her reality.
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Right then and there, I would have honestly ended the conversation with "well that's about it, really nothing going on but thanks for checking on me!"
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She said that she can’t stand that there is a war between her daughters and we have to stop it. Again, I told her what happened and how no one has called me, nor I them.
Again, she suggested we do a Skype call and put this to rest. Again, I said I would be willing to do that, but ‘rude’ sister better at least apologize for having hurt my feelings, which she won’t even do. She ‘refuses to be bullied’ into it. Omg. Just too crazy.
I’m sorry if I appear to anyone here as a shallow idiot, but I will not settle for being treated like garbage by my family or by anyone. If someone who is rude (no doubt about it, I have texts to prove it), and they won’t even give an apology at the cost of a life long relationship with a sister— I’m sorry, but that’s just beyond.
So, it was another upsetting phone call from Mom. There aren’t many calls anymore.
And just like last month where we had the same talk about the Skype truce happening. Nothing happened. And no doubt nothing will happen yet again.
It’s just retraumatizing stuff I have to contend with.
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I think I've mentioned previously that your situation is similar to mine in some ways. I can't help but think that even though it's hard to do, its probably best that you just walk away.. in time you'll be less connected and worried about gaining their affection, loyalty or anything and you'll find better people than those you call family now (only by blood)