Hey, thanks. He is 34 like me.

I have finished the book called "Men who can't love", I am on "He's scared, she is scared" one now.

I am shocked by how accurate all of this it.

Anyway, as I have stated previously I would have left before, when I realized what was going on. I only stayed because he decided to get himself to a psychotherapy, which does not mean that I do not have doubts.

It is like dealing with Peter Pan. Do they grow up? Some of them just do not want to and then you need to run, run very fast to save yourself more heartache. But my question is: what If they really do want to grow up this time? What If this time they use tools which might actually really help them?

I remember he was telling me about his ex, who is full of anger, who is taking revenge until today. I hated her for being an ******hole and hurting him. I told this story to my aunt about this horrible girl. She told me then: do not judge, you have not heard her side of the story. When he told me honestly what happened I thought: I feel so sorry for that girl. I still think what she does is too much, to not be able to move on and hold on to hatred for more than a year, but still I understand her pain.