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Originally Posted by DP_2017
LT
You are lucky a man noticed at all, LOL. I don't know many men who notice haircuts. He is injured and not himself and maybe he just didn't think it was important. I kinda had the same thing about something I shared and a lack of response today, I don't know baby T well so I can't say how I thought he'd act but I'll say it was super disappointing session.
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Sorry you had a disappointing session. I'm not really bothered about the haircut. I think something else is bothering me and I'm trying to figure out what. Hopefully I can figure it out by Thursday's session. Maybe it was just being really open about something that I realized about myself (the other post) and maybe I thought it was this huge revelation and wanted him to be like 'Yes, you've got it, huge breakthrough!" or something. Which I guess is me again being disappointed if I don't get a particular response...I think it's partly that it's just sort of a "therapy hangover," where I shared all this stuff and feel vulnerable and want to be able to discuss it more, but now I'm just here by myself with my thoughts. And I will NOT contact him before Thursday, so I just have to sit with it. Instead, I'll try journaling and also look into the CBT exercise he suggested.