Hmmm well you know me Sept... <font color="blue">

I think you have all the information there, but I have a real problem with "I" statements because IMO those who are not aware of such needs (like on a psychological support board?) think "I" statements are purely egotistical. <font color="green">

Do you think you can write these statements more subtlely, and SEND them to the parties involved? Don't put them in a list (which is easy for us to read) but in paragraph, letter form? It might not do ANY good, but at least you will have been able to voice your perspective. After all, their reactions is all about THEM.<font color="purple">

Really, the information is needed by them ... as from where you are coming, and how you see things. Ask them and allow them to voice their perspectives also... and that might be the beginning of communication. Maybe. It's frustrating, isn't it?