I think attractive depends on a combination of a man's taste and how you present yourself. I am by no means skinny. Never have been. Since I was a kid I was picked on for being the fat girl in class.. but I got older and owned it. Styled myself. No it's not healthy and I have health problems that I'm working to fix but anyway.. I've had no shortage of dates. Between long term relationships. And don't let men tell you how to wear your hair or makeup or clothes. Your body your choice!!