When I got uncomfortable with T comforting me he asked me “are you deserving of comfort?” My eyes hit the floor fast as I shook my head no. I could see his body tense without looking up. He knew the answer before he asked but it still hurt him to see my response. I am absolutely positive that will be coming back up in a future session. He is just now starting to see how I respond when he challenges my views on things and my self perceptions... up until the last session or two he would just comment on patterns without challenging the,.