Wife and I have planned to divorce after our 16 yo high school junior goes to college. Reasoning is that we are in a low conflict marriage and disrupting child’s home before then creates more harm than benefit for the child. Now, I am thinking the better course would be to separate the Spring before child graduates from high school so child has the benefit of supportive friends and a period of adjustment before college. Child is a “good kid” without any particular needs or challenges who is pretty much going to be extremely hurt no matter when the divorce happens.