I recently started remeron and was nervous too. I have had bad reactions to five other anti depressants. I was having anxiety insomnia and nausea from anxiety and this medication has been great! I sleep well and it doesn’t make me drowsy I just get sleepy and lay down and fade to sleep. I hate feeling drowsy. And my nausea and anxiety has been more manageable. I’ve been on it for three weeks now and have had no bad side effects. This one is worth a try I think.