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Yeah but the more you are with a person the deeper the bond and connection grows. How will you ever "naturally" detach to them. You have to wean yourself off of them like a drug otherwise the withdrawals are painful.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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