My mother.. again... this time though it is the last straw.
She went out to an event at our local legion tonight. As I lent her ten dollars, I thought she wouldn't have drank too much since she was going to be there for like five hours.
Well she dropped by afterward, and when she came in she was going on about what a great time she had, and all the people she saw, ect. She sounded pretty excited about the whole event... I never even thought that she was so wound up for a reason..
Anyways, she picked the baby up, and sat in the rocking chair with him. His head was bobbing all around because she wasn't supporting it properly.. so I kind of told her to be more careful.. i probably sounded a little irritated when I said it, but .. HES A BABY FOR KRYPTONS SAKE BE CAREFUL!!
Anyways, time went on, and she keeps losing his soother because the baby keeps spitting it out...and each time he loses it he screams.
Anyways, then she ALMOST loses her grip on him while reaching for it, and I start getting suspicious as to why she is acting so weird with him.
Then, I took the baby back. And tried to fix the sheets on my bed while holding him. As I am doing this I obviously was struggling with the sheets and him. She had the nerve to sit there and laugh at me. No offer to help, No offer to take him and put him in his swing.. just laughed at me for struggling.
Then she announces some stupid comment referencing HOW MUCH SHE SPENT ON BOOZE AND HOW DRUNK SHE IS!!!!
OMG!!! And she held the BABY?!?! WHAT IF SHE HAD DROPPED HIM?? Talk about PISSED OFF.
At this point I told her she could go the hell home.
Then she bit back with "arent you going to call me when I get over there?" (she lives twenty feet away) and i told her she could call me. Then she said something to the effect of the fact that if she didnt call I would know what happened, and it was icy and snowy( for the record, its mostly melted here...)and she could slip and fall and die and then slammed the door.
Now the baby is cranky, and I cant get him to sleep and he hasnt been right since she was here.
On top of that I am pretty sure he has infant reflux, as hes been spitting up alot and scrunching him self up and screaming after eating.
Argh.
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