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Originally Posted by Silk Chaos
If they won't change, then, perhaps, you can change yours and create stronger boundaries to keep them from hurting you?
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"Boundaries" are a failed strategy. Not only do people not respect my boundaries, they have open contempt for them - people actively seek to break through any boundary I set up and punish me for erecting them.
If you think my environment is one where "boundaries" make any sense, then you're not in the right mindset. I'm in a warzone; this isn't a place where people are civil - this is a place where people kill or be killed.