Hmmmm, does this not strike you as a red flag? If you are unwilling to hold a positive dialogue no wonder everyone is being so negative to you.

I wish I could be supportive and vindicate for you your feelings on this. But, I personally will not encourage them.

You have got to want to be positively thought of by those around you. The answer, quite seriously, is that you need to improve your communication strategy in such manner that those around you appreciate and wish to engage with you. I really don't think you can complain given such attitude.

I hope you can come to this realisation and make a concerted effort to be friendly - and reap the rewards of having done so.

Change starts with ourselves.