Something that really endears him to me is that he bought a water cooler a few months ago and hasn't set it up yet. It sits against one wall of his office, still in its box. He continues to provide bottled water for his clients out of his fridge. This is endearing to me because I do similar stuff so it makes me feel "twinned" to him. I have a hard time following through and can so see myself buying a new piece of "equipment" and letting it sit there untouched for months. I have wondered if I should offer to set up the cooler together with him during one of my sessions, but I decided he needs to get past this himself.