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Old Mar 15, 2019, 01:30 AM
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Originally Posted by Rose76 View Post
It sounds like you are still quite bitter over the last guy breaking your heart by cheating. I can understand that. So you're going around with your abdominal muscles braced in anticipation of the next kick in the gut. That remark about TV characters was a barely veiled comment about something else. You were saying that you hate how much men cheat. You're kind of mad at men in general. At least that's how it sounds. I think you've kind of told your guy that he better restore your ability to trust. He hasn't managed to do that, and you're kind of ticked off that he hasn't made you whole again. You're tired of feeling broken. You are sort of blaming him that you still feel that way.

Call him up and say you're sorry. No man with anything on the ball wants to spend his life making up to you for the hurt caused by another man. It's not fair.
I doubt that the whole thing is really about the tv show. In her posts here and I think other threads OP described a guy who treats her poorly and doesn’t really want to be with her. Heck he told her shortly before wedding that he doesn’t even to be married and only does it to please his parents. I don’t think it would be wise to apologize to him for HIS wrong doings. She is already treated as a doormat.

I hope OP comes back to update us