I have made some major changes. I did go back to school. I had to. I couldn't keep going the way I was. Now I've been married for 18 years, and it feels like time to grow up and move out and start over. I still don't know how that will work out. I feel trapped and stuck because I feel like I made some huge mistakes back when I didn't know who I was or what I wanted out of life, and I want to go back and fix them or do it over, but I don't think that's possible. It's rough. Maybe you could consider one change at a time and start slow. Keep your options open, and try some things out. See how it makes you feel. Change is scary, but we have to change some things or we never get free from being stuck.