Some people think they are and some don't. As a sexually confused woman I can say I find female curves more physically attractive than men's bodies in general, but with men it's more the physical strength that turns me on. I don't understand why anyone would want to be straight up and down as a woman. But then being grossly overweight I guess isn't attractive in my opinion, although I don't mind it at a lesser extreme in men.

Everyone has their own opinion of what attractive is. You shouldn't worry too much about others' opinions and love yourself regardless of outward appearance because the person you are is more important. Yes we live in a shallow world and men tend to rate 'physical attractiveness' in a woman as more important than we do in men, but a guy won't stick around with a supermodel like woman if she is a horrible person. It might last a short while but he would probably be very insecure about her cheating anyway. It must be a curse to be very attractive physically as your partner would be worried about men hitting on you all the time. Better to look ordinary if you want a successful relationship in my opinion.

And if you are a ***** he won't stick around. Just you do you and forget about others' opinions as beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. I think loving yourself is probably much more attractive than anything else. Confidence is apparently sexy, so I would say concentrate on self love regardless of outward looks.