I'm a compulsive obsessive, with Chronic Nerve Pain, it kills me when the sunshines through the windows and I see the dust and the streaks on the windows and the shriveled up pea on the kitchen floor, and what kills me the most is the look in my hubbies eyes when he wants to be .....romantic and theres just no way, then next is the look on my little dogs face when he pulls out Kermitt the frog from his toy box and then if that doesn't get my attention, he'll bring out his tennis ball!! It just breaks my heart! My hubby has his own disability, but he's managed to work part time, he's the laundry guy, says i turn things pink ! and also he vacuums and does all the shopping and any heavy lifting, and I can't forget, he's the garden digger!