I was stuck in a rut living under the rules of my ex husband mother and second eldest son, it seemed like I could do nothing without thinking of them and how it would affect them !
I upped roots and moved over 700 miles from them to a place I had never been before, I knew no one except my new husband and my young children, we had temporary accomadation to live in and had to find permanant accomadtion fast.
I moved from a big city (London) to a small rural area and ended up on a farm in the middle of nowhere with chickens as friends !
Best thing I have ever done I am FREE........
I cut all my family off except for my mum who I see once a year and talk on the phone often. But I am the one in control of that relationship now ! And she is not happy with it but lives with it.
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