I don't think one is responsible for the feelings of others particularly a therapist -and if a therapist gets hurt by what a client says - that is on the therapist not the client. I also think therapists say those sorts of things to be manipulative at the client and not because they are particularly true. On the other hand, if you meant to hurt the therapist - then good job - I think it is hard to do and one should take credit for accomplishing what they set out to do (I am not being sarcastic - I mean it)