Thank you so much for sharing your story, Astronach! I'm afraid I must agree with all the others. If you're not qualified and you're not a professional, I don't think you should be trying to analyize this person like you were one. DID is certainly not something that can be played with. You probably mean well, but please try to reach out to a professional for your friend. That's the only way she'll be able to get better. Please try to get help for her if you can. She deserves to get help from people who have studied and trained all of their lives to deal with DID. I hope you'll listen to what the other wise posters on here have already wisely said. Please try to get help for your friend. I'm so sorry she has to deal with all of this