how come nobody has brought up the fact that its a bunch of guys sitting around a poker table? have we all forgotten about the "yeah i banged her" when really she shut him down thing? maybe theyre all just playing around like guys do around each other. theyre forced to show this false masculinity around other men. so maybe what they say isnt necessarily what they mean. maybe if they say what theyre really attracted to or that - god forbid they find their wives attractive! - they will be shunned. i dont know if thats the case but i do know that when you put a lot of guys in a room alone together fish stories arise like dandelions.