I find that insight can come from “whining” - if someone is intelligent
But how to force “changes” is quite another issue..
I’ve never been a fan of being forced to “do things”
“Avpd” doesn’t come out of nowhere and it isn’t for “cowards” or “simply whiners”
I doubt if anyone fitted that “criteria” of being a “coward and a whiner” they would have survived as long as I have ...
I also used to have quite a “talent” at attracting abuse
My snake is angry today. Feel free to ignore her..
(Not angry with anyone here

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