Gordian: I believe she is a very ill woman, especially since the story you described... but the excuse for any kind of illness can only go so far. Imagine, you took care of her through sickness and health, devoted yourself to her...and now. You did your part as husband, I hope you don't blame yourself in anyway.

What's wrong with being the angry guy??? You have every right to be enraged, seriously.

I don't diss therapy, I mean it won't hurt none...but isn't it beyond that point? Betrayal is forever, once you can't trust your partner that mistrust will always be in the back of your mind.