I'm kinda giving up on this issue. Lovebirds, you seem like a very intelligent woman but you're clearly triggered and stuck in your position. I'd really like to see you give everyone, men and women, more benefit of the doubt. I feel that you've taken comments out of context and are focusing on what you already believe to be true rather than the overall picture of what the average person looks for in a partner.

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It's the not-so-beautiful people who treat their partners better. People who look like all that, well, they *know* it, and expect to be treated better because of it.

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Now I think it's YOU who is judging people based upon their looks....

I'm sad that you remain so locked into this negative type of thinking, despite receiving very little feedback that your perception is 100% true. Elements of it are true, yes, but not nearly to the proportions you believe. But, it's also apparent that you're looking for agreement rather than a new outlook, so I'm going to back out of these kinds of posts from this point forward. Good luck with everything