My T hid his book shelf! It is downstairs in a room off of the waiting room. You walk by it on your way to his office but don’t notice... haven’t called him out on being unfair. I LOVE reading the book bindings instead of eye contact!

I HATE talking feelings too and R. T doesn’t play fair on that one either... I have to pick a feeling card before I can go over to the chair and sit down. He introduced me to this ritual the second session and scared the crap out of me! Took him two or three tries to get me unstuck and breathing again and then I still hadn’t picked a card. Now I always pick scared, sometimes with a side of sad... but never happy or mad...