T, thank you for listening to that first email I sent you. I know you said you read all of them but I can really tell that you read the first one and that it guides how you work with me. Thank you for trusting my determination to work with you even though you weren’t sure because I have a history of being afraid of men. Thank you for picking up right where Fr. Left off 19 years ago. I went back and counted, we have only had 10 sessions, 10 hrs together. There are so many things I wish you knew about me already but I guess for 10 hrs we aren’t doing too bad... and knowing me now, in this moment, is more important to you than knowing me before you... I see that and I am OK with that even if I don’t understand it. I just have so many people I want you to “meet”. Only having the genogram and who I am now leaves a lot of questions because the good people aren’t in the genogram, well, not most of them. I want you to know there were good things even if they weren’t the kinds of things you think of.