I have a very strong viewpoint on this which I have been given grief for stating before; but, I can't help but weigh in on this.

It really depends on your living circumstances.

I have to ask then in what manner you are cared for and in what ways you contribute? Do you pay rent and for food, utilities, etc? If you are not working are you on assistance or do you depend on others' kindness? In what ways then are you self-sufficient?