I feel I am getting into peoples heart and into my heart without getting myself involved and in anger. It's a só difficult limbo. But understanding that everyone has their faults, find common ground and don’t let myself involved is important.
Most people just want to be eard and validated. It's ok. They compensate it in the opposite direction I do. I run a way from responsabilities and feel criticised. They think they can rule the world.
I spoke from my heart with the self centered histrionic guy and we had a good conversation. I almost conquer him, at least I show him I understand him. He won't change is self centered view but at least with found common ground and he doesn't think I am a moron anymore. It calms me. He is probably suffering more than me. For me humbleness and sense has to be the more important words, without not being myself.