I am dealing with my "bullies" with love. He asked me for help and I was very sulicit. Helped him but asked him something back he promised me long time ago he would do and didn't (of course). It makes me laugh a bit. (don't know if is right or wrong, but I think sometimes we need to be selfish). Now I am trying to laugh at his big ego and keep my sanity.
My current situation makes me so tired that I can't keep my focus on anything, missed my appointment today at my shrink, and now I lost my mobile phone in a matter of seconds at home (he as no battery)... It's called burn out I think. Everything is going to be ok.