Basically: I have come to fear saying I will do something with someone else when invited because I too often talk myself out of going and then feel guilty for good reason. (I just responded positively to invite from a neighbor to go out for food and trivia tonight and I need to work all day to make sure I get out the door...and, not knowing her very well, having begged off once already, I need to GO. I know it is better to go than to sit here but....