I'm sorry, that might have come out the wrong way. I know my partner doesn't think so either, he already suspected this for quite a while and has told me so. I'm just glad he knows why he doesn't think like other people sometimes, which used to bother him.

Also, I guess quite a few of us think like this. I mean yes some parts of BPD suck, but I can experience far more intense emotions than 'normal' people, so there's some positives to it too.