I feel like I may be non binary. I’ve been this way for about 8 years. I lost a lot of weight and it just fueled my thoughts even more. I just don’t identify as female or male. I show traits of both. I mentioned my gender questions to an abusive therapist in 2011. She simply said I was confused and wouldn’t address it with me after that. I am seeing a different therapist in April. How do I get taken seriously about this and not labeled as confused, being difficult or BPD?