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Originally Posted by ennie
Related to her on my father's side of the family so I didn't grow up with her under the same roof.
Thank you for helping me see that her action was a form of discount.
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Wow, sorry to hear that. My sister and brother are both manipulative (the family therapist called their behavior 'triangulation' during one session we all had to attend after our father's death, b/c our mother is mentally ill and was spending his insurance money willy nilly and acting crazy, so we did family therapy for 6 weeks before they all quit when the family therapist called out their manipulative behavior).
I hope you aren't in contact with her anymore, this family member?
i am reading up a lot on emotional unavailability and narcissism. I found this list of 15 types of verbal abuse on psychology today's website:
15 Common Forms of Verbal Abuse in Relationships | Psychology Today