My family is a narcissist family tree for sure. I'm the codependent scapegoat in my family system. I am reading a book right now about narcissist mothers, which I think my mother could be (my father was emotionally neglectful to all 3 of his children and to his wife).

So, it's no surprise that my two siblings and mother communicate with each other, and I hear everything third-hand. They never include me in the family goings-on and then act offended when I tell them keeping secrets from me hurts my feelings. Very toxic family system I live in.

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